My wife has very low sex drive for me it’s opposite. I want to have sex often but it is not happening as my is not interested due to this I get more stress can’t focus in work. I have a baby so I want to permanently stop erection so that I can focus on my life. Due to low sex drive I started watching porn and masturbate thinking me and my wife in the scenes which gave me immense pleasure now it become a habit I feel very depressed, no energy to focus on work. I feel stressed scared what if i’m fired for not focusing despite of all these thoughts still I could not stop myself. Anyway my sexual life is gone at least if I stop erecting permanently I can focus on my life. My wife has no problem if I don’t erect. Any doctors who can help me please suggest me a medicine. I am 34 year old.